We go biking along the Little Miami trail all the time. An in-family joke is that we call it the world's tallest bridge.
Seemed that this lady touched a lot of lives. Sad. Some things just aren't meant to be understood.
http://news.enquirer.com/apps/pbcs.d...405/1056/COL02
Principal's friends mourn her
Upbeat woman's suicide came as a shock
BY CINDY KRANZ |
CKRANZ@ENQUIRER.COM
UNION TWP. - About 600 people came together Monday, struggling to imagine a world without Eileen Murphy.
It will be a world without her smile, without her guidance and without the funny fish faces she made at administrative staff meetings.
That's just a glimpse of Murphy, the Summerside Elementary principal who was eulogized during a memorial service at the Glen Este High School Performing Arts Center. The crowd included family, friends, Summerside parents, students and staff, administrators and school board members.
The high school stage was lined with flowers, a portrait of Murphy and a cutout of the Summerside eagle mascot. Eulogies, prayers and music were laced with references to her proud Irish heritage. The family will hold a memorial gathering from 10 a.m. to noon today at E.C. Nurre Funeral Home, 177 W. Main St., Amelia.
Those attending Monday's service struggled, too, to understand how such an upbeat person's life ended the way it did. Murphy, 55, jumped to her death from the Interstate 71 bridge over the Little Miami River in Warren County last Thursday. There may never be an answer.
"We're gathered here today to commemorate the life and times of one of the most awesome principals we've ever had at Summerside Elementary," said West Clermont Superintendent Gary Brooks. "It's hard to make sense of any death, particularly when a shining star like Eileen is snuffed out in such a tragic manner."
Brooks was at Summerside on Monday, the first day back in session for students and staff since Murphy's death. He almost expected to see her coming around the corner, saying, "Hey Brooksie, how's it going?" and doling out high-fives.
"It's hard to imagine a world without Eileen," he said.
Brooks and other speakers focused on her life.
Murphy was an educator for 33 years. She served the last 10 of those as Summerside principal. Before that, she was assistant principal at Amelia Middle School, a speech therapist in the Milford School District and a supervisor at the Clermont County Education Service Center.
Barb Dardy, retired Amelia Elementary principal and now acting Summerside principal, met Murphy in 1990, when Dardy was new to the district. Murphy reached out and made her feel welcome.
"What I didn't know then, but what I do know now is that Eileen was the person who lit up in the room in any situation she was in. ... She was truly a stand-up comic, and we loved her for that," Dardy said.
Murphy, she said, put her needs on the farthest back burner to help others. She never wanted praise. "She shied away from it, and for Eileen to be shy about anything was pretty remarkable in itself," Dardy said.
Six-day weeks were common for Murphy, who often worked until early evenings at Summerside, a school that she guided to an "excellent" rating on the state's Local Report Card that measures academic achievement.
Though she didn't have children of her own, the thousands of children who have attended Summerside were her kids. She always attended school functions, was routinely with children in the classroom and ate lunch with them.
"They loved Ms. Murphy like no child has ever loved a principal," Dardy said.
And she loved them back.
"Eileen always reached out and gave real or virtual bear hugs," Dardy said. "I believe that is why she was put on this earth, to bear hug people so they'd become the best they could be."
She was described as a woman who was always generous with her smiles and her time, always knew the right thing to say at the right time, and could make people laugh in the most difficult of times.
Her sister Marilyn Hanke said, "Eileen would want us to go on, and she would want us to smile."