Re: Family situations that you can't help with
Well i went thru something similar with your brother#1.. My ex didn't remarry, but had a baby with a guy that was married and she divorced me for him... i will admit it took me 8 months of going thru "what did i do wrong.. etc.." and at the 8 month mark was when the paperwork needed to be signed. at the last secoind while living with that guy she told me she didnt really want a divorce.. i signed the papers anyway.. I didnt trust her any longer and i finally got over her. today we are friends because we have a child together. I lost alot.. i lost seeing my son everyday, to losing alot of child support money and it took me along time to adjust.. Tell him not to go looking for anybody till your ready.. i tried and i found myself talking about my past and it didnt last 2 dates..lol..so now i am moving on waiting for the right girl..
With your brother#2.. was he in the military before? Maybe the VA hospital could help him or find a source on military.com for help.. I will pray for both your brothers and tell them to keep faith.. i went thru the depression and counseling did wonders for me.. I didnt want to do it, but tell brother#1 it helps and your no less a man to cry to somebody.. i did it and im way beter now going on 3 years divorced.