Originally Posted by SteelSD
Go home. Get back to your girl. If your father opened up this opportunity to benefit you, then there's no way he could possibly hold you to the standard to which your're holding yourself.
Your father did this because he wanted to ensure the best future for his kids--can't fault him for that. However, decisions like these often end up like trying to fit round pegs into square holes.
I lived it with my father as well. Don't sit there trying to be a martyr, go make the best life that you can for yourself....
The old man WILL understand.