Re: Child Support
Alternatively, why should the court rescind the child support order every time people get back together? There are people out there with kids who are on again, off again like they are in a high school relationship. They would be in and out of court all the time. The only way to prove otherwise is to get married.
That's why I personally don't see a problem with anything that's happening here. Go get a marriage license, you're living with her and you have a kid, the opportunity for her dream wedding passed you by already. If you're financially able to throw a big party down the road then have a ball, but right now the right thing to do for that child is to get married. You're wasting money otherwise for no good reason that I can see except that you think she deserves a huge wedding. She's not who either of you should be putting first at this point.
We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars.