Thanks to all of you for the feedback. It is one of those steps that will really test my faith.
My wife and kids (except one) do not like where we currently live.
I have a good job now, but it now involves a 40 minute commute 4 of 5 days, so we need to relocate, but I'm not sure now that this is where to plant our next roots.
We both feel so at home in the tri-state area, that we are just trying to sort out if it is the right thing to do.
It gets interesting because I have a low risk tolerance, while my wife is "let's make a decision and do it" type of person.