When asked what they wanted from the United States, focus group members said respect and aid to develop as their countries choose.
Here's a good start then, quit treating women like cattle. Quit killing people because they have the audacity to be Jewish, or Christian, or any other religion that isn't Islam. Quit teaching hatred in your elementary schools. That's a good start.
Then when you are done with that get a hold of the fact that Israel isn't going anywhere. Learn to live next to your fellow man in peace. I know Israel isn't innocent of violence, there is plenty of blood on their hands as well but for the most part it is in response to having buses full of women and children blown up. Both sides need to learn to coexist which is hard to do when one sides (Hamas) stated intent is the absolute destruction of the Jewish state.