Originally Posted by Unassisted
Assuming there is a gay bar in El Paso and that you never go there, would you know if one of your apparently heterosexual co-workers patronized it?
If the bar in question was a substantial distance from the people to whom he portrayed himself as heterosexual, why is it unreasonable for him to expect that he would never encounter any of those people there?
Sorry, but I don't think he was discreet by going to a gay bar. It's a small world.