Tossing equipment is one thing. Slamming it down in anger so it goes halfway across the field is a judgement call. Thats pretty much how it worked when i played ball.
The way molina slammed his helmet im not surprised at all. And wouldnt argue about it if it was votto that did the same thing. However him making contact and looking as if he would have beat the umpire down if nobody was holding him back. 1 game suspension is a joke for what he did after. at least 3-5 was deserved. 1 game is nothing to a baseball player. Its a day off.