Dump your cell phone, internet, cable, coffee, sodas and snacks and you would have more than enough to cover the costs of healthcare since you make too much to qualify for County Health. There's always a way if you want it bad enough.
And, you shouldn't be in a relationship with a woman for quite a while anyway. Work on yourself and wait at least a year. You can't focus on the things you need for yourself when you have someone else to worry about. You want to be able to offer that person a healthy you.
Picture yourself when you were five years old. Picture it hard. Now give that boy a huge hug and take care of him.