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    Mental health question concerning my wife

    For a little background My wife has anxiety and is taking meds for it now and has been almost the entire time if known her. She has in the past periodically decided not to take her meds causing her anxiety to spiral out of control until she finally realizes she needs them, it's not a great situation at home but I don't want to abandon her.

    That's not the problem right now, she manages a store and has worked herself into an almost mental breakdown situation because she can't let anything go and thinks she is the only one who cares and can do the job. She loves her job and worked basically everyday from early September thru January, the owner of the company has told her many times to take off and let things go but she can't do it and now wants to quit thinking that will solve her issues. I think whatever job she gets she will obsess over it and unless she gets help she will never truly be fine. Yesterday while working her day off she threw a tantrum crying and hitting her hands on her legs repeatedly for 2-4 minutes before calming down and she had a crying jag again today while at work this morning again working on a scheduled day off. I know she needs help but I don't know which steps to take and was wondering if anyone had any ideas on how i could handle this situation? I inow if I tried to take her to a hospital she would absolutely go berserk because she doesn't recognize the issue.
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    Re: Mental health question concerning my wife

    Someone is prescribing the meds that your wife is on.
    Your wife needs to go have an honest conversation with that person.
    From the tone of your letter it looks like you need to be the person to convince her to have that conversation.
    I do not envy you.
    "Even a bad day at the ballpark beats the snot out of most other good days. I'll take my scorecard and pencil and beer and hot dog and rage at the dips and cheer at the highs, but I'm not ever going to stop loving this game and this team and nobody will ever take that away from me." Roy Tucker October 2010


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