When our kids were little we didn't know what eating out was. We refused to do it.. We just threw a slab of meat into the crib.
As for the coffee thing. I've pretty much cut caffeine out of my diet. I had to for personal health reasons. But working 3rd shift I still have a cup prior to going into work.
But I can't drink coffee from places like Starvin' Marvin and other Quik stop places. I understand why people do though. It gets you vibrating right off the bat.