I see it differently. I had a college friend of mine that was a normal guy, he liked to drink Jack Daniels and have a good time. One day he had a diabetic seizure out of the blue. His lifestyle had to change. He was told he was not allowed to drink alcohol, ever. We tried to include him but it was hard. If we were going to a party we always had it in the back of our minds that if he came along he may do something stupid. Sometimes we kept our plans secret so as to not hurt his feelings. It is a tough line to walk.