I'm in the air force and recently returned home from Iraq. I have been dating the same girl for about 10 months (give or take). Anyways long story short I just found out that she is 11 weeks pregnant with my first child. Yay! not quite... Only 1 week after I found out she was pregnant I am told that she was cheating on my while I was deployed and made plans to leave me for this guy that since my return, has literally moved to alaska (he got out of the air force and moved back home about a 2 weeks before I got back from the desert). Now I am in bit of a fix. I am going to be stationed in Korea for 1 year beginning this Dec and, she is due in the beginning of March. She claims that the whole fiasco with the other guy was a mistake and yada yada... I still love her but the trust from my side is minimal at this point. Also I do not want to only be able to see my *son* on holidays and for the summers because I refused to try and forgive her.
What are your guy's opinions?