I'm in a bit of a fix regarding whether or not to invite my father in-law to my son's baptism next weekend. Long story short -- he's been nothing but trouble for my wife and the rest of his immediate family for years now. We're talking infidelity, psychological abuse and lots of manipulation of his wife and children for years and years. That said, I'm aware of the symbolic and emotional importance of having him there nonetheless. My son only has two grandpas, and he's one of them.
Curious what RedsZone's community thinks of my options. Please feel free to let me know what you think. It's obviously a complicated situation.