This is just my opinion, but I feel that alcohol is much worse than marijuana as being a gateway drug, and just worse as a whole for society. As a guy that struggled with alcohol and drugs when I was younger, alcohol was my gateway. I can't remember a time that weed made me want to do other drugs, it was while I was drinking that I had no control. Luckily I no longer have those struggles. Having a kid and manning up will help straighten a guy out!!!