I try to stay out of this kind of stuff, but it seems an unknown force is pulling me in.
Amorillo, you may listen or not - but I believe it is important to listen to what the others are saying. Be yourself. Do not be the guy trying to impress every one - simply be yourself.
Remember - this is a fan site for a baseball team. Love the game, love the team, and love the site - do not worry about what part of the site you can post in. No matter where you are, you will always me amongst your ilk: people who simply love the Reds. And whatever in the end comes to be, comes to be.